What you need to know
Young people have access to more technology and use this to manage their relationships
There are many reasons why a young person might create sexualised content of themselves.
One of these reasons may be as a way to manage relationships. Sexting is a term often used to describe sharing this type of content but young people may refer to it as sending a ‘selfie or a ‘pic’.
Creating, sharing and storing naked or partially naked material of a person under the legal age, even if it is of themselves, can be an offence and may be considered child sexual abuse material.
Although laws have been designed to deal with adults who offend against children, some instances sexting may also meet the requirements of these offences.
Police will also respond to these issues differently according to relevant legislation.
If police get involved, the investigation will generally focus on the incidents of sexting where the image has been deliberately spread to external parties or if there are malicious or exploitative reasons.
An educative approach can help your child understand the issue and make informed decisions about how they use technology as part of their relationships.
Advice for parents and carers
|WHAT CAN I DO?
Your child may have varying levels of access to technology, image sharing apps or social media, but it’s important to start conversations early about what type of content they might be sharing.
Using critical thinking or being Share A.W.A.R.E can help them understand what types of content are okay to share, and get them thinking about the impacts on themselves or others around them.
Be aware of signs that your child is being coerced by others into taking sexual images of themselves and creating child sexual exploitation material. The signs of online child sexual exploitation may not always be obvious.
If your child is in this age group they may be using technology to manage their relationships, including romantic relationships. Your child might think it’s not a big deal to send a sexualised image of themselves or that ‘everyone does it’ and nothing ever happens.
There are a number of things they should consider before sharing this type of content:
Encourage your child to learn about their own personal boundaries. Remind them that it’s okay to say no if someone is pressuring them to create and send this type of content. They might have friends who are already sharing this type of content, it doesn’t mean they have to do it too.
It’s important to understand that every situation involving sexting is different and to approach conversations with your child openly, in a non-judgemental way.